Written by Kelsey Gaus

Following her success from “Thanksgiving in Mongolia,” The New Yorker article that won the 2014 National Magazine Award for essay writing, Ariel Levy has expanded the chilling piece into a memoir.

In The Rules Do Not Apply, Levy chronicles the adventure she never wanted until late in her thirties; motherhood. Comparing her friends to kernels of popcorn exploding in matrimony and motherhood, Levy explains the growing pressure to not miss out on having her own child. While on assignment in Mongolia, she prematurely gives birth alone, on the hotel’s bathroom floor. But we already knew all this from her essay.

The book, however, allows readers a more concise look at the significant events leading up to this tragic moment as well as the debilitating grief after. For anyone that was equally confused about the omission of her significant other in the article version, reading the book clarifies this allowed the article to focus on the pinnacle tragedy while remaining within a word count.

Her self-inflicting tendencies create a complexity in Levy’s personal life that only an entire book can explain. She begins to cheat on her wife with an exceptionally troublesome ex, one that underwent a sex change but remains as possessive as ever. And the baby’s father? Well, you’ll just have to read the book to find who that is. Although famous for her profiles on others, Levy’s openness about her own life enables readers to sympathize with even her most questionable decisions.

Levy also creates her settings effectively. Readers do not merely imagine the New York scene in the mid 90’s or the inside of a Mongolian ambulance, they feel it. From the frozen East Asian landscape to the soft breezes blowing through her Shelter Island bedroom window, Levy gives the details readers need to then feel her pain.

Like all successful memoirs, Levy shows change by building the tension and setting up her own fall. Readers see the determined, independent young woman age and become sad and lonely. Despite the book’s sadness, readers will devour this book.

Rating: 9 out of 10. My only complaint is that sometimes her self-absorption becomes a bit of a turn-off.

The Rules Do Not Apply hits stands this Tuesday, Mar. 14.